We often marry the wrong person, that is a person who feels familiar to us. Their good traits and their bad traits are familiar to us perhaps because they exist in our parents or siblings.
Rather than divorcing and then looking for another person who feels familiar to us, we need to work on the skill set of negotiating our differences with out partners intelligently.
Working on negotiating our differences is a task that is important for both people to work on.
Read more…http://www.nytimes.com/2016/05/29/opinion/sunday/why-you-will-marry-the-wrong-person.html